Chongism Vol. 3: The Laws of Karma and How to Use it to Get What You Want

How to Use Karma (to get anything you want)!

At some unrelated time later, I unintentionally learned more about Karma. It’s normal to talk about karma when something bad happens to a person, but it can also be utilized to generate positive outcomes for yourself as well.

I found an interesting man on the internet that was teaching: ‘How to Use Karma to Get Anything You Want!’… He was a Buddhist monk that was teaching people about ‘emptiness’ and ‘karma’. And quite frankly, after my own experiences, I listened.

The Four Steps

He taught a few rules around Karma:

• Karma can only be generated between two or more people.
• & What you give to others is what you get back.

With those in mind, his steps were simple.

1. Decide on what you want

Self-explanatory. Make a list of what you want. Spiritualistic or materialistic— it doesn’t matter.

2. Help someone— that wants the same thing as you— get what they want.

This means planning out:

• who you’re going to help (someone like yourself)
• and how you’re going to help them get what you want

Make sure they want the same thing as you. You must give to others what you want for yourself. Some people don’t want ‘what you’ want, and the feeling will not land on target. Helping people that ‘don’t want help’ is a waste of energy and effort.

I’ll give you guys some examples to clarify:

Money (materialistic):

Have you ever heard wealthy people give this advice?…

“If you want to make money, help other people make money. “

It’s because they, either consciously or unconsciously, are able to see the karmic path.

Are you making money by selling your time for money?

Are you selling your skills or competency for money?

Are you helping a company make an extra $10,000 in revenue and you only want a piece of that?

Help people get what they want, and money can follow.

This can be in the form of a 

• A Partnership – Going into business with someone and helping each other along the way to make it grow
• Business coaching/consulting – Investing your time and energy in helping other people make money. Their success is your success. If you cannot help them make more money, then the karmic seed will not give you what you want but what you deserve.
• Developing a high-income skill like ‘marketing’ for a business – If you can use your skills to help a business make more money, then give those skills away like wildfire. There’s a reason people tell you to offer your services for free when you start. It’s good karma to help people make more money for free.
• Mastermind – A group of people that meet up regularly to help each other achieve their goals. The more people that are involved, the more powerful the karmic seed.  As long as the group is proactively helping each other achieve their goals, then it is useful in generating good karma. If the group meets up once a week and talks to each other casually, it’s a waste of time. If no progress is being made, it’s a waste of time. 

Happiness (spiritual):

If you are depressed and want to find happiness, you must find another person who is depressed and raise their spirits. You must be able to give ‘what you want to feel’ to others.

Normally, when people think of what they want, they think that they have to ‘take’ it. However, the selfish act of taking leads to more problems than solutions. The more you take from others means there will be more taken from you.

The more malice you have for another is to wish for more malice toward yourself.

Relationships (connection):

Have you ever felt lonely and wish you had a deeper connection with someone?

Well, you should know what to-do by now.

Find someone who also feels lonely and wants a deep connection with someone.

If a single person who feels lonely and wants to be in a relationship meets another person who is single wants a relationship, then things can work out.

And I get it, not everyone is for everyone. So, how can we generate our perfect partner without dating a thousand people?

If finding someone that’s lonely, is too hard to find, it was recommended that there are a lot of lonely people in retirement homes.

People whose family visits once a year and don’t regularly meet new people. Find one that feels lonely and wants deeper connections with people.

Karma does not have to come from the person you are helping, so always give without expectation of a return.

By helping someone else’s loneliness, fate will have it that someone will help yours too.

3. Spend time with them regularly and help them get what you want (Once a week for an hour)

A karmic seed will not sprout

• without consistency
• or strong emotion

Doing something good once and expecting the world to shower you with gifts is like throwing a rose seed onto a concrete sidewalk once and expecting them to grow.

It’s always good to do a good deed, but if the deed was done with low energy, then consistency is needed.

It’s said that ‘once a week for an hour’ to see and help someone can be enough, but that’s flexible. 

You can spend far more time and energy on helping that person to accelerate or spend less time with that person to decelerate your process.

The more time and energy you commit to helping another person get what they want, the more likely your karmic seed will bloom unexpectedly sooner. It is the difference between having something happen in 20 years and in 20 days.

(I say energy because you really do have to invest a piece of yourself into their achievement)

So, help and help often.

4. Go to sleep thinking about your good deeds

This part is called “watering the seeds”. As you fall asleep, you must think about the good you did for the day.

That’s it.

Lie in bed and reflect on the good things you did for others that day.

This is even more powerful than reciting affirmations. Why?

Because you’re replaying, in your mind, a direct, personal experience.

You can feel it clear as day as soon as you experience it for yourself personally.

• Wow, I really helped X make some money today.
• I feel really happy about making Y feel happy today.
• I’m glad I made a genuine connection with Z today.

If you’re going to sleep thinking about all the tragedies in life then that’s the self-image you want to live in— how you live in your mind will reflect in your reality through your actions.

So,

• Think of your ideal life / goals
• How incredible it would feel to live in that ideal life / achieve those goals
• and if you don’t know what that truly feels like, then help another person get what you want, and then let fate play its cards.

Remember: Karma does not have to come from the person you’re helping so always give without expecting anything in return. Put faith that the future will have something for you eventually.

If you’re not getting what you want, then you’re not investing enough of yourself into it. Rewards go to those who put the most emotional energy into— what they want— through their actions. The more focused ‘the energy and action’ you put into your goals; the faster it will manifest.

If what you got wasn’t what you were expecting, then how you’re affecting other people is not in line with what you want for yourself. Your results will be poor if your input is poor, but even poor input compounded over enough time will get you something.

The more people you genuinely help; the greater the reward you get. If you have a team of people, then you can all focus your energy on one cause and create your ideal reality faster.

And that’s it.

The 4 Steps to Use Karma:

1. Decide what you want

2. Help someone else get what you want

3. Help them consistently over time

4. Think about how you helped other people for the day as you go to sleep.

Give with all you have, and you will receive what you deserve eventually.

I’ll end this with a few final thoughts.